Chapter 341 Secret
The fields are filled with children's joyful voices, as long as they don't stay at home.
They won't be scolded. There seems to be a generation gap between children and adults forever.
He is the kind of person who cannot live in peace and will have conflicts and frictions. Even if he is there, even on the surface, in the eyes of others, you seem to be so harmonious.
Of course, as long as the door is closed, they only know that there are some small problems in their family. When educating children, they will always encounter some problems.
Children are not always born so happily, nor do they know all the rules. This is what they want from their parents.
We put a lot of thought into cultivating the children when they need cleaning. From an early age, the children have to cultivate good behavior habits.
Once a child grows up, this habit cannot be changed. By the time the child is six or seven years old, their personality has already been finalized.
If they don't change their habits at this stage, they probably won't be able to change them in the future. After the age of seven or eight, children will enter school.
When you go to school, you will come into contact with all kinds of people, and their thinking and cognition will also change. By then, they will be sources of information from many sources.
They themselves have to choose the information they need from the group of people around them, which requires parents to train them.
How children can distinguish correct information requires the guidance of parents. It is impossible for children to distinguish right from wrong by themselves.
No one is born cute and knows right from wrong, good and evil. Only words and deeds can lead children to grow up healthily, especially the children of the Su family.
Mrs. Su, who has been with Mrs. Su since she was a child, is also a well-educated person. He is also from a noble family, so he pays special attention to the character of his children.
In this aspect of education, he knows that if a child's character needs to be docile and well-behaved, it cannot be separated from family upbringing. If the child is allowed to develop freely.
The probability that this child will grow up to be a kind person is about 50%, but the probability of becoming a bad person is also 50%.
So this requires adults to educate him. Many children have bad tempers and personalities.
That's because I have loved this child too much since he was a child. A family atmosphere is very important.
Children will be influenced by their parents when they are young. Teaching by words and deeds is why it is so important.
That's because family education plays a very important role.
The child has grown up with his father since childhood.
What kind of children can be taught depends on what kind of parents they are. Children cannot escape the influence of their parents.
There are also some conflicts in the Su family, especially when it comes to educating children, but when it comes to educating children.
They are all behind closed doors, just like other families.
Their children also have times when they are naughty and mischievous, so naturally it is impossible for others to see them.
What is important is that the family scandal should not be made public. How could the Su family’s education of children be seen by people in the village?
Now their children are getting older and have their own self-esteem.
You can't meet in public. You have to leave some front door for your children to care about them. You can say whatever you want to say.
No matter how you educate your children, you can do it, but if you beat and scold your children in front of others, you will seriously hurt your children's self-esteem.
Moreover, children who are in the stage of adolescent development will be even more sensitive to this problem. If you beat and scold these children in public.
These children may be in serious condition and their self-esteem can't stand it. Then they will go directly and something particularly dangerous will happen, such as in the river.
So, Mrs. Su pays special attention to this aspect. Mrs. Su usually also reads books and newspapers, and learns some educational ideas from newspapers.
People in the village always think that the children of the Su family are naturally so well-behaved and sensible, but in fact they are not loved by Mrs. Su.
I don't want to argue with the people in the village. If you defend yourself in front of them, they will think you are lying.
He is obviously his own child, so well-behaved. Even though his own child is so naughty, people in the village would not believe such a comparison.
On the contrary, it damaged the relationship between the villagers, so Mrs. Su avoided talking about some aspects.
He didn't want to go home after causing so much trouble.
If you have some ideas, let the villagers think about it themselves. They can think about this life however they like.
After all, you live it yourself, you can do whatever you want behind closed doors.
People outside here only choose to see the good side and are not willing to accept the bad side.
These people at home educate their children. They are also in a lot of pain when they educate their children behind closed doors.
Then, just like ordinary parents, they were a little broken and didn't think much about this day.
Don't want to take the bad side.
It happened that at night, Su Hanlin asked me to harvest all the remaining rice in the fields.
He was afraid that it would suddenly rain heavily, and that the weather would remain the same as sunny or cloudy. Even if he speculated that it would suddenly change.
The change of this fact can be said to be unpredictable. Maybe a second ago you predicted that it would not rain tomorrow, but as a result, when tomorrow comes, it suddenly rains heavily.
So Su Hanlin probably collected everything in the fields in case there was a sudden heavy rain on this day or night.
This is the time when God is making a double ring. It seems that he is deliberately joking with these farmers. If it doesn't rain, it will suddenly rain one or two times.
It's also a child's temperament. June's innocence can change at any time, which made the Su family get up early the next day.
Seeing the dried rice in their living room, they were all a little surprised and rubbed their eyes.
Then he realized what he was doing, and he was just a little surprised. It was not surprising that something like this happened to their family.
This morning, I asked everyone from the Su family to go to the rice fields together, when everyone in the village came to harvest the rice.
All the rice and wheat in this field were collected, so that the people in Wang Village could see evidence of their labor.
Looking back, you feel strange and have doubts in your heart. They have been walking on thin ice for so many years.
I'm afraid that one day I won't be able to hide this secret anymore. The Su family has a lot of secrets, but they can't be known to outsiders.