Chapter 97 - 097, the reason for the withdrawal
But if you wait until the third child graduates from college and then consider personal issues, then the age is obviously a little old, and I am afraid that it will affect the future relationship.
In the era of common early marriages, if someone hasn’t married on the 25th or 6th, the first thing that everyone thinks about is that there is something wrong with this person.
If it is good, how can it be so old and still not married?
The social atmosphere of this era is like this. Therefore, Huang Qiuhua wants to make a marriage arrangement for his third child first, so that outsiders will not say anything, and his reputation should be better.
So, the two couples found an introducer to help find a suitable woman. The uneducated girl in the village can’t do it, but you can find a suitable candidate in the town or the surrounding villages.
Not to mention, they really met a suitable person for a family, a girl from the town, her parents are ordinary workers, and there are two younger brothers at home.
What satisfies and surprises the couple the most is that this girl is actually Qin Mingsheng’s high school classmate, the girl with the best family conditions and the highest culture in the introducer’s hands.
Just because of the relationship between the girl and their third child as classmates, Qin Dafu and his wife are very satisfied. They have the relationship with their classmates as the foundation, so that the two can have a common language and be more familiar with each other.
At this time, Qin Mingsheng was all focused on his studies and wanted to be successful in his studies as soon as possible. Therefore, he was not too keen on personal issues. In terms of preparation, he had no thoughts about men and women at all. It is one of the obligations that every man should have.
When you reach the right age, you should get married. This is a process that will be experienced sooner or later. Coupled with the persuasion of his parents, Qin Mingsheng doesn’t want his parents to worry about him all day long.
Qin Mingsheng didn’t have much contact with the female classmate. His only impression was that the other party was handsome and quiet, and he wanted to be a woman who was easy to get along with and lived a good life with.
So, Qin Mingsheng nodded and agreed.
This marriage has been going well since it was decided. Usually, the two families will give gifts and walk around on festivals. They will get married and settle down immediately after Qin Mingsheng graduates and is assigned a job.
Who knows, this marriage has only been set for more than a year, and then there is a national famine. In the first half of the year, because every household still has room to spare, this day can still survive, but after a year, this day will be gone. Some can’t make it through.
Because of the famine, even schools and many units have stopped their normal operations. Just imagine, they are hungry and hungry every day, so how can they have the energy to maintain normal work and study conditions.
There are so many people in the country that even the relief of food is not helpful, and it is impossible to provide emergency relief at all. It is only a slight reduction in the rate of death. Every day, there are still people dying of starvation.
The villagers who live in the countryside are in even better condition. After all, they can support themselves by relying on the mountains, but those who have no land and live in towns will be even more sad.
Therefore, the woman who was engaged to Qin Mingsheng, the Fang family, proposed a gift and asked the two children to arrange the marriage. The bicycles discussed before, the thirty-six-legged home, and the eighty-eight betrothal dollars were not required. .
It only needs one hundred catties of food from the Qin family to pick up their daughter. The banquet ceremonies are different now that the years and months are different. If you can save it, you can save it. Let’s keep it simple.